In 1994, The Mistress Manual was born as a simple pink guidebook self-published by an experienced dominant woman. She moved on to other efforts, and the book fell out of print - much to the disappointment of thousands of eager submissive men and dominant women. Now, Greenery Press has brought this classic back to life in an updated new edition - perfect reading for the woman or man who has completed our Sexually Dominant Woman and is looking for more information. Covers everything from establishing authority to exerting discipline. (Don't miss its famous "Ten Rules for a Successful Mistress"!)
The Ultimate Good Girl's Guide to Female Dominance
Author: Mistress Dede
Pubpsher: Mistress Dede
Have you ever wondered what it would be like to be a dominant woman who can control a man with just a look or a word? When the thoughts of being in control creep into your head, that sexy little smile starts to play over your lips, and you start to get some ideas that you want to try on your man. As women, we have all been there, but being women, many of us are unable to take hold of our control and dominate a man. The idea of being a dominatrix is often seen as a sexual and social taboo, and many women are afraid of what society would say, what our family and friends would think, and in general, we feel that it isn't the position of a woman to take the stance of power and control. Women are seen naturally as the weaker sex, the one to be protected by a man, and the man in the relationship is often seen to be in control, the leader, the strong and dominant one. Social norms often dictate how we feel about ourselves, and sometimes, it can hinder who we really are inside. Take heed, ladies. We are women. We are strong. We are powerful. We are fierce. We are romantic. We are dynamic. We are caring. We are fighters. We are lovers. We are women! This manual will give you an inside look on what being a Mistress is really all about and will give you insight on how to be a Mistress. Being a Mistress isn't all about leather outfits, stiletto heels, and a whip in your hand. It is a journey between you and your partner, where you are the leader, you are in control, and you have the final say. It is a path of adventure where you make the choices, you take charge, and where you can let all of your inhibitions go. It will give you insight into a new you, the one who has been trapped behind the social norms for far too long. Ladies, welcome your inner Mistress!
Lessons from Dominatrixes on How to Get Everything You Want
Author: Lindsay Goldwert
Pubpsher: Simon and Schuster
Popular podcast host and personal finance expert Lindsay Goldwert explores what professional dominatrixes can teach us about confidence, power, and happiness. Imagine, for a moment, a world where the usual power dynamic is turned on its head. Where women not only stop apologizing, but seize—and enjoy—control. This is the quickly-mainstreaming world of BDSM (bondage, discipline, sadism, masochism)—and it has a lot to teach women about empowerment, negotiation, open-mindedness, and more. Popular podcaster and personal finance expert Lindsay Goldwert has traveled across the United States to meet the stars of the subculture, who spoke frankly with her about their lives and work. In Bow Down, these Alpha women show how you can reset the power dynamic in any situation to get what you want—whether it’s from a husband, boss, or partner. They share strategies for revolutionizing not only your sex life, but your career, your relationships, and most importantly, your inner foundations. With bondage gear popping up on the big screen, the runway, the red carpet, and in celebrity lingerie lines, BDSM is officially moving out of the dungeon and into the sun. Let Bow Down help you learn how to use it—in the bedroom, the boardroom, and everywhere else.
Are you usually aggressive in the bedroom? Ever considered becoming a dominatrix? Do you want to really feel the thrill of dominating a man in the bedroom? Have you ever considered making a living out of it? Or maybe you have always been submissive and would like to take control? This book is your complete guide to female dominance. The BDSM relationship is not just for fun but can also be used to earn a living, and it can help you discover your inner strength as a woman. If you want to take the dominant role in bondage/discipline/sadism/masochism, then you must know the basics of being a dominatrix. These seven chapters will talk about why men love being dominated, what it means to be a dominatrix, what every nice girl must come to terms with if she wants to be a professional dominatrix, how you can discover your flavor of domination, and a guide to becoming a professional dominatrix - all things you need to know.
The Corporate Dominatrix exposes the workplace for what it truly is: a social sadomasochistic wonderland -- one in which some people have power and some do not, thus creating an unbalanced command-and-control dynamic. Using the psychological tools of the professional dominatrix, Lisa Robyn shows women how to role-play their way to success by employing the tactics of six mistress archetypes: Goddess, Queen, Amazon, Governess, Nurse, and Schoolgirl. For a dominatrix in everyday life, the key to effectiveness lies in being switchable -- knowing when to be firm and direct and when to be flexible and accommodating. The Corporate Dominatrix dominates without being domineering and is submissive without being subservient. She stands up for her rights in an open and straightforward way, and she is confident enough to intuit what her clients or colleagues want and she responds accordingly. Robyn provides a compelling strategy for women to get their way at work by choosing the appropriate role to fit the particular situation, while always behaving in a professional manner that earns respect. Filled with examples and practical tips, this provocative business book will help every businesswoman advance to the position she wants and truly become the mistress of her domain. Power becomes you . . . Use it wisely.
Companion to the 'New Bottoming Book', this is a completely revised and updated edition of the best-selling underground classic for nearly a decade. Gives even more insight and ideas for those who want to be a successful player.
The academic book on the history of the Dominatrix through the ages, with meticulous research from libraries and museums. From the ancient Dominatrix Goddess Inanna - Ishtar, the 17th - 19th Century Governess Dominatrix, the 20th Century 'Bizarre' ladies. Lastly Nomis theory on the Dominatrix's practices as the 'Seven Realm Arts'.
The highly regarded, comprehensive introduction ot consensual SM - bondage, giving and receiving pain, role-playing, negotiation, finding partners and more. Revised, updated and expanded, including a new chapter on SM Organisations', sections on knifeplay, lifestyle relationships, SM pregnancy and more, and illustrations of key points.'